Pastor Mildred Okonkwo, Wife of the senior Pastor of David Christian Centre, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, has responded to questions about couples in a distant marriage and if it’s OK for them to engage in phone sex which could lead to masturbation, while they are living apart.
While answering a question, Pastor Mildred Okonkwo said there is no spelt out instruction in the bible on what married couples should do during sex in the bible. She posited that “it’s a distant marriage and your sexual needs have to be met. God (sic) doesn’t really give us clear instructions on what to do inside your marriage.”
“When you’re married, he kind of leaves you guys to know how to explore. So, there’s no rule that says, oh, don’t kiss on the forehead, kiss in the ear. It doesn’t break it down.
“So, when it comes to that kind of thing, God is trusting both of you to make the decision on what really works.”
“And if there’s no other way for their sexual needs to be met, what should they do? They should burn? They are married so it is their decision.”
She said phone sex between a married couple living apart only becomes a problem when the couple can’t complete the phone sex due to whatever issues such as poor network and one partner then goes off, looking for someone else to finish off with. She also said partners should check their spirit to know when they are going too far because when your heart convict you then you know you have sinned.
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